When the collet is flush with the fitting, the tubing will pull out of the fitting with little effort. Use the aforementioned procedure for removing quick connect fittings.
There are two O-rings on one end of the membrane. Lightly lubricate these O-rings with the supplied silicone grease.
If the membrane is fully seated, it will be about 1/8" - 1/4" inset from being flush with the housing.
Tighten the cap an additional 1/8 - 1/4 turn.
Be sure it is fully seated in the fitting or a leak could occur. It should not be able to be pulled out with a light tug.